Build your mind out of spare parts .
Why do I say this ? Because it is rude to sit around picking each others' lives apart with gossip and slander . If they are not in front of you , talking to you then do not gossip about them . They will speak when they are ready to speak . Life is messy , it is not as simple as gossip theory may propose . Just as the Simpsons taught us in the episode about " all you can eat seafood restaurant " ; the truth is much more benign and complicated than " I hear'd they shaved a gorilla " . Secondly ; Do not sit around asking questions of others when you are too lazy to think for your' self . Don't peck and pick each others' brains . Build your' intellect out of what you find , spare . Prepare your self for the messy complicated world that is reality . Then you will be able to function as a moral human being .